Should You Have an Orgasm After Or During Sex If You’re Trying to Conceive a Boy Or a Girl Baby?

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I often write about influencing the gender of the baby that you’re trying to conceive. One of the questions that I’m asked quite often is some variation of the following: “will having an orgasm during conception increase the chances of a boy or a girl baby?”; or “will having an orgasm help or hurt my ability to become pregnant?” I’ll answer these questions in the following article.

The Fluids From An Orgasm Don’t Hurt, Kill, Or Compromise Sperm: Sometimes people will write to me and tell me that they are afraid that an orgasm will somehow effect, compromise, or destroy the male’s sperm. It really doesn’t.  Luckily, healthy sperm from a healthy man is stronger than that. What it does do though is change or affect the acidity of your vagina.  And, depending on the sex of the baby you want to conceive, this can either be a good or bad thing.

Why Having An Orgasm Can Decrease Your Odds Of Conceiving A Girl (And Increase Your Odds Of Having A Boy):  If you want a girl, you need for your vagina / reproductive tract to be highly acidic and to have the highest PH that you can manage.  The reason for this is because the Y sperm that gives you male babies are very vulnerable in this type of environment.  They can not survive this way for very long.

But, having an orgasm produces fluids that can lower your PH.  So, if you want a girl, you will want to avoid this.  (I know, this is no fun.)  But, you really only need to avoid this or hold back on those days when you are trying to conceive.  The effects of the fluid is not permanent or long lasting.  It’s OK to ignore this this during other times during the month.

Female Ejaculation During Conception Favors A Boy, But Often Isn’t Enough To Ensure Your Success:  As I said above, female ejaculate fluid alkalizes the vagina.  This is what you want if you are trying to make a boy baby, so there is no need to hold back.  However, this alone is often not enough to get your lowest PH.  Admittedly, it’s an easy thing that you can do to lower. It doesn’t cost anything or require special equipment.  However, if you’re starting with an acidic body, it often won’t put enough of a dent in your bottom line.

How Do I Know Which I Am?: How do you know where you stand? You can test your acidity or alkalinity by using PH test strips. These aren’t very expensive and they’re pretty easy to find.  This will tell you whether your trend toward a high or low PH.  Whether you want to go low or high depends on the gender that you want (again – high for a girl and low for a boy). 

If you don’t get the reading that you were hoping for, it really is OK.  You can change this by douching and / or by altering the foods that you eat for a short time.  Everything that you eat is either acidic or alkaline. Consuming different foods will effect the PH of your body as well.

As you change your diet or douche, you can then test again and see how these changes have affected you.  This also allows you to see which things are giving you the best, easiest results in terms of PH.  You will also need to look at timing your conception depending on when you ovulate and also using the right sexual positions, to name just a few more things.

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