What Can a Man Do to Help Conceive a Girl Or a Boy Baby? – I’ll Tell You
Usually the questions that I get regarding conceiving a baby or gender selection come from women. Occasionally though, I will get inquiries from men or from fathers-to-be. Either these guys generally want one gender over another, or their wife or girlfriend has a preference and they want to do what they can to help her to be successful. Sometimes, they want to surprise her with this research or information. So, in the following article, I will offer tips and advice on conceiving a boy or a girl from the standpoint of the men who want to participate in doing so.
Understand That Intercourse May Require A Different Timetable Or Different Positions: Here is the first point that I have to make. If you are trying to conceive, especially if you care which gender that you end up with, the days of having intercourse any time the mood strikes you might need to be put on hold for the short term – at least until your wife becomes pregnant. I know this isn’t all that desirable, but there’s a reason for this.
See, one of the variables in gender selection is timing. For a boy baby, you need to conceive following the release of your wife’s ripened egg. For a girl, you will want to conceive before this. So, if you want a boy and your wife asks that you wait to have intercourse AFTER ovulation, know that she really isn’t rejecting you if it’s not the right day or if she asks you to wait. She’s asking this because going ahead and having sex on the wrong day could very well mean the difference between a girl or a boy baby.
And, she may ask that you try different sexual positions that what you normally prefer on the days that you are trying to conceive. Again, there is a reason for this. Deeper penetration works better for couples who are trying for a son. Shallow penetration is preferable for those who want a daughter. What you end up using may not be your preference, but know that you only have to worry with this on the days that you are actually trying to become pregnant. The rest of the month does not have these restrictions.
Remind Her To Keep Track Of Ovulation: Another helpful thing that you want to do is to remind her to check where she is in her fertility cycle. You will need to have intercourse somewhere in this time frame. So, you will need to know when this happens and when you need to act. You can be sure about this by getting her an ovulation predictor and making sure that she uses it. I personally preferred the saliva predictors, but ask her which she might want. (The choices are pretty much saliva or urine.)
I also recommend having her begin to test 5 days beyond the end of her last period. Many people don’t start this early, but there are some people who ovulate quite early, which is why I am suggesting it. You should not stop testing until you get a positive or until the start of her next period. Not every woman becomes fertile mid cycle. Many people will make the mistake of thinking that they aren’t ovulating when really, they are just testing too early or too late.
Don’t Become Annoyed With Her Needing To Change Her Diet. (You Don’t Need To Change Yours:) The last topic that I often discuss is those of acidity. To make this short, if your wife is acidic, she has more of a chance to have a daughter or girl baby. If you want a son, you will want her to become alkaline. She can either douche to make these changes or she can change her diet. This means that she may have to avoid certain foods sometimes. However, you don’t need to change your diet. So, be supportive and don’t try to tempt her with food that she shouldn’t have. Again, you’re only going to need to continue on until she gets pregnant.
Go Along With A Smile On Your Face: Trying to conceive should be a fun and exciting time. Many people become so caught up in this that they let this process become work. If your wife perceives that you are resistant, then she will be more likely to give up or she won’t want to trouble you with all of this. Let her know that you support her and that you are willing to be completely available to do whatever she needs you to do. Don’t make her feel like all of this is silly because I can assure you that it’s not silly to her. What is important to her should be important to you, and since you’ve gotten to the end of this article, I suspect that it is.